Team member: “I will do ANYTHING to be successful in this business.”
Sponsor: “Great. Let’s set some appointments for Monday night to talk to.”
Team member: “Uh, Mondays are not good. That is when I watch Monday Night Football. Gives me something to talk about at work the next day.”
Sponsor: “Okay, what about Tuesday night?”
Team member: “I make dinner for the family then and that takes a while. Plus, traffic is bad mid-week and I get home late.”
Sponsor: “What about Wednesday?”
Team member: “That is sports night for my kids. I watch their games whenever I can.”
Sponsor: *sigh* “Ugh. Well, what about Thursday night? That should work.”
Team member: “Thursday is perfect. But, I listen to the company Zoom call update then, so maybe that won’t work.”
Sponsor: *facepalms* “Let’s try to talk to people on Friday night. How does that sound to you?”
Team member: “Fridays I unwind from a stressful day at work. Plus, I need to rest up for the weekend. That is my only time off from this stressful job.”
Sponsor: *sighs in disbelief* “Saturday?”
Team member: “I just told you that weekends are my rest time.”
The leadership lesson our moms taught us?
“Don’t believe what people say. Only observe what they do.”
Advice to team members who can’t seem to get started…
We can suggest to these unmotivated team members:
“Start saving your money, or even take a part-time job. Put off some big purchases. And once you accumulate enough cash to buy a fancy coffee at your favorite coffee shop … buy the large size. Then, sit back, sip the delicious coffee, and make a decision about where you want to go in life.”
This is better for our unmotivated team members.
Make a decision now, and get it over with.
We don’t want them to lose years of their lives delaying a commitment to their business.